Beichuan middle school motivational speakers

 2009 4.29 Beichuan middle school motivational speakers: month launched special program at 7:35 on the 11th and then we will

explain, in the end what is love. When we talk about love, put it to me for someone else narrow range between a fall in love. It has four characteristics, the students are very young, first listen to and try to understand.

First of all, love is a self-investment. If I love someone just give him money,UGG boots clearance, but give him something. This is called what? Mercy. Well because I had not put in, some parents give children money, but they may not care. Students are still young, and sometimes found that if you want more parental care, but if parents can not care about it, how to do it? Very embarrassing. He is also teaching me a friend, and he told me that his son go to college, and each time came home with him, said: He said, Why? Because usually there is no communication between him and his son, ah, he met his son would not talk about, so the son of a say, He knew his son had money. Like the password, the password of your clearance, you say, give you money. I do not think that the ideal relationship, you better how to do, communicate with each other more than usual, to make sure they can live into each other's world, so if you love someone today, including family, friendship and love, are the same. Must be self-investment, with an interaction between people, because love is a relationship. What is the relationship does that mean? When any relations, relations between the two sides will change. Say you know a new friend, of course you will ask him a few phone numbers you? How to contact you? If neither the phone number did not connect, you did not meet with him a few years, how called friends? So the real friend appears, with one another to care for a few more lives to pivot, allowing you to any thing, there are fun things to share; a painful thing, you can share. Life is not easy, nor is it smooth sailing life. So the process of learning and growth you must remember, happiness is good, but the pain was an essential element of life inside ah! Including the edge of death, including our bodies have a problem, older age slowly, and finally face the end, we are also faced with the problem. So when we look at life more optimistic though young, more full of hope, but also know the shadow of life, the life of the negative situation, so that your life was more balanced, when you travel with others, and also more willing to say I want to in the main, my self to put in with others to form a deep relationship with each other.

how kind of relationship? This is the second point, is to learn to grow together. Today with the students, many of my classmates are good friends. Why? Because learning together. Do not underestimate the word to learn, when you are learning along with students, have the same teacher, same school, there are problems when we think together. What fun things inside the campus, students participate in various competitions winning team, or what kind of honor was, we all are truly proud of that reputation, this feeling called? Called a sense of belonging. We are a group that no one need groups, organizations, individuals to be more than most of the power, so we need to know, to learn together, grow together. What is the most valuable? In the When the gentleman should travel between the text, the text on behalf of art, literature and art are included. We talk about the problem with it, we should talk about literature, about art. Sichuan is a good place ah, that is the ancient call We've heard many ancient scholars Shu, many famous writers to write great works of this place, we think a bit of a know, like Li Bai, as Su these people are the great genius ah. Their works appear in this land. Imagine, the same students when they tell you to see these mountains and rivers, see the natural scenery, see all kinds of delicate plants and animals, they are much inspired by the heart. When they travel with friends to each other when the miss each other when you can write an article written by inspired us, let us feel the soul of a shock. So we need to know when they are young, learning together is the most fun thing. Literature, art to talk, would find life very fulfilling. Confucius stressed that Last time I came was impressed, because the students for classical, such as Beneficiaries Three Friends, Friends of the straight, Youliang, friend to hear. Three friends useful, first, friends are very upright; second, Youliang, friends in good faith, but also to understand; third, friend to hear. Friends do, scholarly. When you ask friends like this, you do not forget, you have to be such a friend, or why people tell you to and from it? So we talked about that people get along with, in addition to self-invested outside of it, but also care for each other, learn together, grow together, goes far in this way we can.

third, but also to self-improvement. Self-improvement because we are talking about feeling the same as the light will illuminate one inner self. Students can think about, if a teacher said I appreciate you, you immediately feel that their lives are illuminated. Because normally, you do not feel anything special, if your parents say you can do it, you'll feel a force to encourage yourself. Why? Because older parents, teachers are our elders, to see that he has a talent you can play. Often may not know our own, we are only young thing, a good education, good listener, have our days, until the parents have the older generation, elders told us that you are a worthy son, or friends of your own When you find a friend particularly appreciate that this appreciation will let you feel the excitement of life. Why? The value is found on your behalf, you will not like a worthless, so is the person you like you must have some value to be found. After you find it, because you care so that he have a sense of confidence in this regard, it is the greatest strength of love. Plato said a word

So, he said, crazy love is sacred. Many people like the very good impression, you suddenly feel very special, and he told me how good? I must have that special ah. You will feel what? Began to converge themselves shown the advantages of their own. So Western scholars of love, he advocated the second argument crystallization, the first degree of crystallization of that? Crystallization of the first degree is a good impression on my childhood with longing for the opposite sex, I will mold together, projected on a person I like to think of the perfect object of his, this is the first degree of crystallization. But that was not enough, because after more familiar, and from then on, he is just very ordinary, she is someone else's sister or sister, she is someone else's students, but I think she is very different, because I put my crystal cast on her, put her as the perfect disguise. But after that she is very ordinary contacts, crystallization broken. Needed at this time how? The second crystal, to accept her is her, do not add to their demands on others, and to itself to be sure others, to enjoy, this is the real love. Otherwise, we'd love to talk about today, I want everyone to meet my standards, and you reach such a high standard who get it? That others fail, you do not love him? I ask you students, your parents, whether you are not up to par, still the same love you, and is the favorite that you ah, I say this because I myself am a parent, someone said to me what you think children grow the most beautiful? How do I think are the most beautiful long my daughter, but sometimes my daughter complained, she said I look like my father, how should we do? Therefore, we must understand that this love is no objectivity, and love is very subjective. Represent? Everyone is so cute, you also want to be beautiful? To find someone to love you. Who loves you? Beginning from the parents, many people love you. So you think you are beautiful? Of course, the United States ah. The beauty is relative,Discount UGG boots, that we've analyzed, do not think that a person is beautiful, and the world people have to admit it. There is no such thing, we humans are too self-centered, and in the Xi Shi, and Li Ji, are beautiful. The two beautiful fish to see them to immediately dive into the water; birds see them, and immediately flew to heaven; deer saw them, and desperately ran away. See not, the fish with the birds, deer how so there is no vision with it? I have the most beautiful of human beauty inside with Li Ji out to show you, how do you run so fast? See the monster with the same, why? Because we humans are too subjective. I ask for a fish, the best of? A fish course, is another thing; of birds, the best of? Also a bird in sight; of deer is it? Also a deer thing. So we humans are too subjective, and that the standard of all human standards. Do not think so, does that indicate? Can not be universalized human standards, the standards required by your personal can not be generalized, at all times have a different sense of beauty, to see how each place you like to master it. So you may be affected by others, but you must have their own unique vision,UGG shoes, to believe their own eyes, when you find a person beautiful, and worthy of appreciation when the represent? There is a good representative of your heart slowly emerges, illuminating his value, he also because you care about him, love him, he will treasure their own, he also felt that some people actually like me, there must be some kind of value on my behalf, I shown to be good. This world is so you do not, people love to form a happy family, the final outcome, resulting in a harmonious society,UGG boots, is not also true thing. Therefore, aspects of human love is endless possibilities, so say love is divine madness of Plato, because you usually are according to the normal customs of the time, living day to day, not show wonderful life. But once there is love there, you become different with the usual, in his view a bit like a crazy, this man does not seem to care about the usual fame and fortune, but will feel he has a different value of life should be cherished.

So when love comes with sanctity, sacredness of each person mentioned is a very high altitude, it is. For example, we make friends, friends like Confucius handed very happy, for example, in things to come forward and say that I am responsible. A friend passed away no one tube represent? Come down, filial sons. Confucius he is willing to help. We say that life is to make friends, see a dead friendship, this chivalrous spirit manifested in the body of Confucius. On the other hand, if the friend is rich, Confucius sent a car, a horse, Confucius brought on by, say thank you. But if you worship their ancestors in the family, with the fillet into a sacrifice to Confucius, that value is not much money, at most ten dollars Well, a piece of meat, Confucius with you Zuo Yi thanked him and bowed at right, does that indicate? We should study Confucius as an object, you have to have a set of values. Today, young students, it is best to learn the stage, this value is the emphasis on human life than material.

called Zi Lu, a student of Confucius, he learned that a little. He had an aim, his car, his horse, clothes, Gua, with friends with, have no regrets with the bad. Simple, and I have not seen to age a Zi Lu, saw more than half of sub-way, what is half of Zilu it? I told him by car, and he lent me his car, I drive bad, he was very sorry, that is, half of Zi Lu. Zi Lu real, I told him by car, lent me his car. I opened his car broke down, he has no regrets, just say a word, I will open the bad, so you do not care. This is a student of Confucius. Therefore, we Chinese have such a good idea after you learn to feel the material as a foundation of human life, to do the development to the above conditions, people thinking you, also determined, as well as the level of the spirit of a person's achievement is not out in a what, how much money Yeah, or how much do officials Yeah, definitely more than a case. The pursuit of riches is everyone's instinct, the pursuit of wealth as long as people do, because society will need to have competition there is progress, but those are just the necessary conditions. In addition to this than you can go up, the pursuit of our intellectual requirements, including the ongoing quest for knowledge, live and learn, including the time between the feelings with others more profound. The same is true friends, not much, but every friend with you all feel very at ease and from there make friends with people like you, inside which is very practical, your friendship and profound.

a British writer, he wrote a novel, the hero tells the heroine that, you love me less, but love me long. Who is the same in the long history of your emotions, your long-term maintenance, but not necessarily required too frenetic, or is about to disappear, and it looks like nothing but a passion. So we talked about the time love will need to go through rational thought, to know that people live in the world, there is life there is power, and power must be spread out, it is natural to have a variety of love objects. Then you love from their four-ways, then you're going to love, the main body to put each other to care, subject to increase, so they have a higher value can be revealed, the last to hold on life hope.

said the word hope is a good word, but what is hope? In the West, the late Middle Ages there was a writer named Dante, who wrote the He said, and hung in front of the words hell, who called into the door, put down your hopes. So your students, what the hell? Hell is no hope of a place called hell. So you live in the world that life is hopeless, you just like hell inside the same. So be sure to understand why life with hope? Because there is love there is hope. It sounds like a slogan, but do not forget that as long as you live and see the new day, and today, the end of April 2009, coming in May, and have been separated for almost a year away from the disaster, and you do not forget to put the disaster behind it is a test of your life, is a refined, so that you can up the essence of life, continue to develop. So you have to grasp to what?

which in Greek mythology, there are many descriptions of hope, the most famous is the Pandora's box Pandora's box opened, the variety of diseases, disasters, suffering, evil all out, so world has become very complex, very confusing. Sign cover up, the hope that lies within. It become? There are many confusing things human, but I hope also hidden inside the box. So if people want themselves to find hope, hope that will not come from the outside, the hope is issued from within. First of all you have to feel their life there is hope, feel the vitality of a young man all the time in constant development. Last time I finish my students to share with you the experience of life after the end of many students through my side tell me that they want to go to chess to the next, looking for basketball to play basketball. Say what? They feel that I can not always immersed in an atmosphere of sadness inside, I can not keep waiting for someone to comfort me, encourage me, I want to find themselves a life of fun, as long as you live, you have the right to make life happy. You can not wait for someone else to you, others give you, other people can take away, others will be tired, others tired, then stopped. But do not forget that you have your own energy, it revealed itself, and how we said it hoped to happen? Hope you feel your life is, and today there is hope for one day. , A German philosopher and writer called Goethe. Goethe said a word, he said, the most horrible thing in life is to get up the morning, it was found to be alive, do not know why alive. Students, I believe that when you get up the morning, I found myself, think the first thing to go to school today. When you think of something to do today, congratulations to you, your life, there is hope. Therefore, we can sometimes take the views of Western scholars to analyze the various conditions of modern man. You just wake up that day to go to school in the future, after you enter society, one morning, to go to work today. Congratulations, you just feel that you live there to do, life there is hope.