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1, female 84 years, and looks in general. boyfriend 81 years, recognized Handsome. hometown in rural areas all non-Department, and now the same company, he did sell 12 million annual salary, I am a clerk 3 million annual salary. women chasing men for a long time, the end of March this year, men and women, male students to participate in wedding, claimed I was his girlfriend, returned to the students said do not want to toss out, and I'm not happy (I'm male and 1.85 meters 1.62 meters), let me end of the banquet in his stay. 23:00 he was foreign female students (married, seemingly well-off married life feeling bad) phone call, he went to the living room then, talked for a while he let me answer the phone, that he went to a wedding banquet, and then he went back to the living room about something for a long time. found that men and women often call this, speaking quite close to Who are you calling to behave? To help this woman to her seat two days and nights, during the men back home with her. In the past she had seen a male with male parent. I like men, want to get married and exchanges, and now I have officially moved to male residence, to work together with home cooking, Flirt sweet life. Now I know a man underwear, bed sheets blankets, condoms are given her. Please Shun Shun teacher told me, what is the relationship with her man? predict I and M what will happen?
you are very cheap very cheap, knowing that a man despise you, also died chasing hold; knowing that men have experienced a good friend, even went to live with him, since you are so desperate hh, then do not ask him, and that relationship between female students is valid and, anyway, of the opposite sex can send him condoms, but also can specify the sharing of condoms with his people. you and nothing can be predicted his future, even if you do so to marry him, you also get your want happiness, because this man despise you, but because this man never intended to respect you.
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2, 28 male, stable high income, there is room car, tall good looks, hepatitis B carry. met a woman, her home in rural, stable, looks normal. men like the female can not be said, but got along well, but some conflict with their appearance, each time have managed to see whom. male is mainly required for the wife job stability, good character, kind, height generally commensurate with the above conditions women are in line. male intimate several times not encountered are consistent, so that the female is commendable, and the she was very fond of themselves, men thought, and she will be very happy. But the appearance problems such as stuck in my throat , get along with my heart every time the total grievances. is in a dilemma, separated? perhaps hard to meet the right, plus they have a disease, the recent hair loss, the total opportunities for fear of delay, unhappily married, or die alone; together? and it barely. hope to answer, save untold miseries of men.
you are aware of their patients were often people find it too, now come across a various conditions are suitable, and especially love your woman, even if luck, how the same old mind she looks like? live without beautiful women, beautiful women, not to pull hh light sleep, and hold on your own little lofty bar, the girl looks good benefits and HBV carriers can be easily combined with it? to contentment, to Thanksgiving, have a good life .
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3, fallen in love I never graduated from college came to Shenzhen in 2004, recognizing the high schools and universities in the deep and smooth, he was admitted to the civil service, and soon cohabitation, marriage licensing of 07, 9 months to do the flow of people, this time I hit great, I have been since the shadow of sex. Slowly, between us once a week from the initial, decreasing to the current year have not once. peacetime he entertaining more, alcohol and tobacco are also much, I always thought it was the ability to affect his heart .4 5, the evening he drank drunk, said he and a woman well over a year, the woman for him 3 times abortion, may not be born after, let me help. talk to my in-laws house to pick her up. Let us be a good sister. I asked him who you love? he actually said that both love. I clearly told him that the two one can only choose one. He is now back, and can also become a problem of sexual life both of us. He said that is my reason, he told me there are shadows. He is a psychological impotence, right? how can I do?
It also asked how to do what? he prepared to concubinage, and they never touch you, you do not kick him, still clinging to the metamorphosis of marriage doing? Is the 21st century also Xingli arch? to whom you make your Look, ah, you men are not true back then.
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4, I 36 MA, stable work state-owned enterprises, his family was good. husband of 36 workers, rural admitted to the University. My husband had just graduated from master's work not When found, his parents put the rural house to deal with, came to town (face too serious, for fear that his son is in the city village, and how they are still in rural areas). I told my parents that borrowers with her husband's savings, loan to buy a small house, is composed of the in-laws live. her husband's salary in addition to repayment, and the rest of the body are used in the in-laws. From now married, her husband never gave me a penny, we live in my single apartment unit I pay us the cost of living. my parents were very dissatisfied with my in-laws and her husband, her in-laws think I am not too seriously, marriage is not a penny out of her husband at home, in-laws every day at home idle, little income and insurance are No, give us a burden too great. especially the father and lazy but also face, in good health and do not find a job, fear of relatives and jokes (in fact I am depressed: there are so many lazy people in rural areas, to find a job but do not want to..) Although my husband is good, but is maintaining his parents. husband job insecurity, wage is not high, I am past middle age, even children are not students. two days were not as good as I am a person gone well, economic pressures often angry. I really want a divorce, a glancing header in the life of both, entangled in the hh
marriage to the husband's family nothing, does not mean you do not attach importance husband's family, represent her in-laws too poor, or you too want to marry this man on the rush. marriage you take money from her parents pay the down payment, loan to buy a house placed her in-laws, once again proved that the relationship between you and your men, eight are active and on your way from start to finish hurry, as so on the catch, so can not do without him, so afraid of Jiabu Diao, can you catch a man no less than the capital it? so because of his family and his life is getting so tight bar, but also you asked for it , I'm sorry you can not blame people, blame your own original hungry. Now her in-laws too lazy to work, it is because people's sense of tradition to turn to his son found feeding them, you are being with feeding them, but as long as the lifting of the marriage, or the identification of implementation of the AA, you would not have even a child can not students. not tangled, only think about their own tolerance limits, you should not liberate the body, but the spirit.
PS: By the way here with some big nothing bird brain who say: on the daughter-in-laws have no maintenance responsibility for the problem, go read the marriage law. I on the strange, the world has a few a wife's mother would expect her son to the elderly? can expect the world has no shortage of old-age daughter to her mother's mother mm are you when you gave birth to you with JJ is that someone helped you? my Pooh.
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5, the appearance of female 36, the provincial capital city, a monthly salary of 6000, there is room car, college, independent and cheerful, but some violent temper. based on the conditions, three years ago, when two years old baby derailed her husband can not tolerate, angrily divorce after three years as the baby and her ex-husband has tried together, love and hate together away from the noisy clutch, ultimately could not bear false dubious married life, as do a thorough a break, the mood is also unaffected. to five year old baby can not adapt to the life of my father suddenly left home, every day take the trouble to ask my father come home, the period also tried to explain to her parents do not like each other but love can only be separated from the baby to the group , helpless muddle young baby, so her father is still journeying home. ex-husband every day for two weeks and the baby will be drawn together, the baby will be a day to a few days after my father, so my father to call.
seen so many instances of the truth, I do not report any hope of remarriage, and I can live the solitary life can endure loneliness and helpless, innocent baby is not looking forward to face the eyes are often looked like broken heart, how do make your baby is not so sad, another baby soon to primary school, or keep up the teacher explain the fact of divorce, if the fear of discrimination or the baby's laugh bully other children, do not say they worry that the teacher sets My father and mother state, she will gradually adapt to the days of my father is not in sight. To straightforward to tell the children: my father and mother live in separate, but you are not missing father or mother, no difference between you and the other children. This more than indoctrination the children were brainwashed and laid the understanding of how much she would not do this troubled. to trust the fate of the child and the child's personality are God arranged, we can only strive to do our thing, not too much interfere with her, even if it is sad and let her taste, and all do the job of the parents never see their children grow up to do so.
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6, and her husband six years of marriage, the children just a few months (by myself band, full-time), due to the nature of her husband, another holiday vacation, he often stopped off, they work late, and March, almost all day long on my old baby at home, (it was still cold, the children and small, which also went not) at his home, is cooking dinner, watch some TV, then sleep the next day he goes to work, and then continue to repeat, we do not talk too much (after a hard day I will sleep) and sometimes feel very depressed, feeling He is not as inclusive me (I am foul temper, and now also can not help but get angry), I hope he can half-way call or send text messages to ask me, but he did not, I do not want to give him a call , because the feeling told me that he did not like (which may I say to temper love it). In fact, sometimes quite want him to spend time with me to help me, feel my life he did not he do, he is like temporary visitors. My feelings exactly what's wrong?
another big point of the kids, who can leave, you are not so tired physically, emotionally you can be much better; while women of a temper, at once lovely , and a man to be happy to speak with you. In fact, after maternity leave, you should consider to help you find nannies with children their own to go to work, early return to society, you will be more confident that, she does not care so much about a man's man of few words .
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7, my boyfriend of 85 years, 87 years, we are all love, with more than 3 years, occasionally cohabitation. see your book, is not committed to meet him some item 8. But it is certain that the other girlfriend he did not. He is a relatively house people. according to my classmates talk about was his students, his character is pretty good. I was depressed that he refused to see My friend refused to go out (except to the outside open room). So always felt I was not too Fanjian, lost in the whirlpool of his obsession.
ignore the details of the pool of a mean that you ignore this man does not love you ignore the basic evidence. one would not with you from the social, sexual intercourse with you only happy man, obviously can not count her boyfriend, but can only count bed with Kazakhstan .
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8, with four months, I have 25 business units, easy to work, his family was good; his 30 foreign companies, smart, mature and stable of doing things, family in general, also considered a modicum of success by their own efforts. We is a long distance relationship, about one thousand kilometers apart, more than a month before they see one. at the beginning he was very warm, daily information, telephone contact, work is also Q contact. I guess it turned cold, and sometimes impatient that he talk to me , no previous patient. they changed management companies, to work super busy at work now he rarely spoke with me in Q. after work, put a short holiday, weekend, never give me something in addition to phone messages. I sent a message to him, he is deemed necessary before returning, does not matter it back. call him, the general attitude, and sometimes he was busy, said that after the return to me, and most did not return, said that telephone charges you, and do not like the phone communication.
His family is very general, suffer more than before work, sometimes more savings, but also generous with the money he used, gas can. I grew accustomed to the care with which two hundred, his life is monotonous, early hours, in addition to the work of almost no other activities. I am also a monotonic, relatively introverted. We have a large non-major events on the line when dealing with very happy. He has come to our city going to work, but no suitable jobs. I He could not stand the cold, to mention a few times to break up, he did not agree, he said his character was so busy with normal work (compared to a lot of my time), so for everyone, not for me. He said love me. I do not understand is that he not love me, or are we not suitable?
separated thousands of miles, the distance is very difficult so far has always been called the rising enthusiasm. But distance is not the most important, the key his heart for you, has been weak to the homes, so he did not agree to break up the proposal for the time being. mm In fact, he has broke up with action to implement the resolution, you do not give him a greeting walk away forget.
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9, I'm 27, and one in the field, work hard, day two first-line every day, is still single. now IPTV call left women everywhere, I think I left now belongs to women, and suddenly in a hurry. I now have returned to their parents thought, do not want to one out, parents older is also large, and around them need people. You say I'm back to looking for a job object, and also had time to do, because I am not young? my family conditions in general, their own things on their own efforts, but also did not do to help people the way of the future is very confused, and you showed me about it.
if the current work and your life is like a general, but also nothing to be thinking about future development, then back to her parents. If you things always work on their own, then back to her parents but also from scratch, no no. home is not too late? as long as you're not ready to Jiadiao this year, and go back to find a job, settled down after 2 years Remarriage of people, but also not too late.
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10, I have two years to graduate school, my mother gave birth to my old age, family conditions are not good, state-owned enterprises bankrupt retirement, can be said for the I paid all her training to become useful, and I love them dearly, but I'm feeling depressed parents is not good, so much old enough to fight every day. the economy is a big reason, my mother saved, father did not, but more important is that they character does not and, within my father, like one person alone, my mother outgoing, like to walk out, she admired the couple who love each other a couple out shopping, dad unworthy, and, my dad wants to change her life, often outside that Dad is not good, so my dad no face, only to be arguing. my childhood life in a quarrel over, causing the character I very inferior, to university students enlighten me under a lot better. shun aunt, you how can I persuade my mother said, Do not quarrel with their father, and I've advised a lot of useless, I present a provincial boyfriend, after I married them how to do it?
unhappy marriages is to wake dead, you do not control them, they have become accustomed to that kind of day, not noisy when it fails to trouble the day, your home must be a major event, so, or let them be, all are safe and healthy, like.
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11, female 21 male and 23 met while (the groom powerful, obedient men, the working arrangements for home to school.) started against the groom, not too formal working women (men are civil servants), but the men say no to cry will give up women, to adhere to for a year, a very good relationship, for men and women did an abortion. 23 females, the male does not agree that home is no longer insist on breaking up, women in every possible way to retain no avail. separate male and two days later A woman presented with home and said A woman straightforward, more suitable to get along with his family. Female sad, send text messages to men and did not return to meet men .1 years, he and A female has been breaking up, as women pay a lot, can not forget , but also, and good. men will not receive text messages New Year not return calls, change the password QQ woman also delete a message, before the two well. man explained that because of his family in the next, inconvenience contact to retain men and women to break up, and vowed to get other female official to work, just for the family. women believe.
heard last month, 17 men and women transferred to B city, the day men and women not to contact, call girls at night, men said to get his father , in which the same work, women did not speak too silent men, the last woman hung up, until now, men and women made no contact. women are sad, because a relationship the day before so the next day male. now has 24 women, no longer believe in love, intended to intimate understanding of a condition can not hate to get married, but not willing, do not love to go out, because of local small, many people know, feel like a joke. very painful, may I ask how to deal with this what? how to treat others eyes? women believe that men can not always hurt others, men take advantage of other people suffer, one day men and women will be doubled by the pain suffered!
another case only itself to blame. knowing that his family against , knowing he had a change of heart, knowing that his chances spectrum, you still with him, he just ruined the three-time all on him, and finally the lessons of the bar, which died down, right? But you turned out to be impossible to conclude the face of public opinion and he will be unlucky for a woman? It seems so far you do not know where the problem. a Shun said, the family is not opposed to, can not be swinging around with, contact the letter can not be sparse. down eating and lose style love of women chasing men, up to a woman the body for Love and money are contributed to the men, after which becomes Jour sad shame for the past many years, these many mm you make a bogey, there is normal today. hate him hate you less themselves silly, pray that he be punished as early as the Qing pray you brains, and then not taking it every so-called good conditions for man to desperate people want results now, and man is not stupid, men choose women also find and take on his most , men rarely Flirt completely carried away due to a moment of.
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12, female 29, was introduced to a man of 30, text messaging QQ (3 telephone calls) to contact two months, did not meet. home of the North one place in rural areas, but his family is now working and living a southern city, and intends to long-term settlement. start from the problem of not thinking too much, his family said he is willing to can, and referrals that can be arranged between his home women work. This male institution, working conditions acceptable. chat feel he is more stable, homely, he would not come spend money. Not long ago he had the opportunity to go home, wanted to see me, but his mother was afraid to spend money (both have five or six thousand, right) let him save money mortgage payments. He reluctantly gave up, I did not say anything. Now he is old and asked if I wanted to go over there to play, to see whether a suitable job.
near my home town now foreign companies, wages are not high but stable easy, can often go home to see their parents, two sisters are close by. Sometimes I want to get married to their homes, so far away from her family, very sad. I do not want him at, but we have no feelings before basis, so I quit my job to the other side and then understand? have to say working relationship that we set before help me find it, if the relationships do not do, I will go home? Also, there all his family, even his maiden sister who were there. My mother also considered the issue, afraid to have a grievance, I did not at that. can have no suitable candidates present, contacts are few good opportunities.
He came to see you have financial problems, you see he had no financial difficulties? Remember, if a man really wants to see you, care about you, will not toll for the province, he let you see him, he will take the initiative to see you . At present people see you no power, how do you dare With a courtesy to go over his? you into trouble with too much, You will not be far away, put down all existing right to pursue the outcome uncertain?
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13, I am 32, unmarried, although the look is not ugly, but puberty is over, had no desire to fall in love. not me pessimistic, two young women did not if a money, not to talk about the conditions love! If talk is no more than two results: wronged their own will, or love lost, why not simply drop a quiet. of course, only temporary, and so create the conditions for a talk about it for more income. love is not necessarily to get married. I remember such a smart sister who along have said, not getting married next life.
unhurried attitude is good, but can not be too pessimistic. because, marriage heavens, good-looking does not look good in second, you Jiadiao the The key is that person in due course appear. Do not follow me, I represent myself, my knowledge is not necessarily appropriate for each woman, some women still should get married.
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14, now lives in Taiwan, the mother ready to take my 8 year old daughter to go, then go to my husband. I am 36, and in the town authorities, stable, excellent condition. My husband has no fixed after graduation to work hard to be a far cry from the success always . We are comfortable in the small town life easier, and there is her mother all year round financing, a house and a car. If the husband has a stable job, in any case I will not leave their homes. The problem is her husband want to start, he will not leave us alone to Nianglia . Soon, you wise well informed, so you are old enough that I can then toss it? conducive to the development of children to go to Taiwan it? to temporarily leave the thought of my daughter, the thought of going to live with her mother, my heart for fear of entanglement.
you man for nothing, has been funded by the family, he certainly can not do without his mother. But you mother told you to, first, for the family reunion, two also have a new beginning for her son, in short, to a small home for good. Are you afraid to go because you fear a new life, more afraid of her mother from just the right to live, but as long as the Taiwan Do you work there income, her mother would respect the professional women. Taiwan to study than the mainland will ease point, there to take care of her grandmother, her daughter do not need to worry about.
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15, my husband and I are university students, both 38, have a daughter 11 years old. I institutions, the work of idle stable income, he self-management revenues fair (only breadwinner no problem.) married women from the family has been heavy, the unit is facing restructuring, the children are slowly bigger, no longer need to take care of her mother in every possible way, and now want to enjoy their investment and and professional-related projects. men strongly opposed, women not allowed to move money from home, are not allowed to go out to borrow money. also said that female motivation problems, why did not dull day. I support him in his business, and in the obligation to make the mother make every effort to care for their children when, and now insist on their own, or listen to him, continued around him and the kids?
stick to their ideals and the pursuit of it, you know, even if you live around him and the children turn, men are not only your peace of mind of a woman's life, not only that, we also why do so many of his sacrifice, we do your own music their own, their own to meet their own, and also was not lived in vain one, right ? a desire to have failed to meet even the work of women, certainly not a happy person, even if her family has more money, what is the point.
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16, male 30, divorced last year, no children . separated soon after a friend introduced him are his girlfriend, she is my rural home, now a shopping mall in Shanghai to work, have been living together. We are very much in love, life, food and language are the same, she was beautiful and hard working people, it is able to endure hardship. My parents know about what they strongly disagreed, because I work hard out of the Phoenix, the rural poor, male, graduate, now working for foreign companies, the annual salary 30W, she never graduated from junior high school to work out. I thought old-fashioned parents that she and I did do not match, hard to support my family out of the ravine, the last but to find a wife in rural areas, too embarrassed for them.
ex-wife and I are university teachers, although I did twice a year only to return home, but my parents very good and work well, the high cultural level, so the parents particularly like her. I can not stand her mild temper mention divorce, but my parents always thought was my girlfriend is breaking up my marriage, although I have repeatedly explained that later met, but they are stubborn to hate her. Now, I did not dare tell her the truth, afraid of her sad and hurt but also the future relationship between mother and daughter. Now she was pregnant (their parents also know) and eager to get married I am thinking of how to do the work through their parents? they worry about me and this girl get married, but also worry broken body.
bluntly, you're pretty figure she was to her, but also because she was so pretty soon end and separated from his ex-wife's state of complete divorce. Although you do not recognize, but you have proved this point as to no longer have this thing with their parents and their rivalry was. beautiful wife should not be the primary criterion for selection, but the diligent can suffer one of the standards should be my wife, so she will not suffer you to find. I can not imagine a culture in rural areas out of the ordinary working girl, a sudden bound by the stewards of the middle white-collar apartment and a car, there will be how earnestly performance seriously and positively, she does not suffer if it does not diligent and do not toe the line, seemingly can not capture you. Now she is pregnant, you have to pay another knot, and her parents say that your marriage you call the shots, we can no longer nonsense, or else the face of the next generation came out even worse.
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17, I am a graduate student, love love the small fry, also earth-shattering, very good for nothing, pay a lot, in different places, and finally betrayed by his Add deserted. He turned out to be the object of love than I am fat, than I am, I'm not educated than the old woman. I do not believe, and act cheap phone entangled beat him and threatened him to get him back, because I felt so unfair really swallow, to teach him a lesson. Now he and his friends deny this person I have pay any attention to me, and I feel so fail, get out of here alive.
especially for men and male bully words, sleep is useless diploma object, the body sexy, attitude and gentle woman, is what they need, do not go to bed to let him graduate degree more than 5 minutes on? dream. people since the Lord, and yet you have two , the scattered you have the holy grail, but you Fanjian to the stalker, so that even the bullies who look down on you, tell the truth you are really lost your father's face, women can not so do not pay attention do not self-esteem. Do not say you can not get out, you just not want to go out of it, if you think a cute smile fool women have nothing, you may never do not go out of it.
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18, women from the north , marrying the South, married 11 years, children 6 years old, stable and relaxed, her husband a successful career. but then I am stupid enough to recover just graduated from her husband, desperate for his own good. no problem a few years ago, his son was born, and his parents under one roof, but also committed a taboo Shun-shun said, and their relationship is bad, it basically does not speak. husband strong, each conflict with his parents, he stressed parents is the first in his heart, are blame me, and he did not use loud, seriously affecting the marital relationship. peacetime are also take care of him I hurt him every time he was drunk, no one would say to him better than me, he told me good. knew that, it remains the same.
husband there is a girl, unemployed, two years before she was to buy a house, give her a lot of money behind my husband, whom I stumbled upon, kicked, he said he earned money, thinking about how to spent on how to spend. pay back the money after the brother said, her husband said no, the next day people went to buy a car, really shameless ah. feeling that I and his family out of tune, they usually say that the local case, I do not understand, like an outsider, his mother once said, , I brought my own children, her husband refused to feel like kicking them out. Soon, how can I do? dark.
thing should not be dark. the city idle room, his parents could not you go live, why have to abandon the man before? you separated too seriously, men will not take care about you. to call the attitude of men know that you need to be respected, but also to call a man and his parents know that you are not a fit people.
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19, 88 men and 87 women, the other is a single-parent families, about 2 years, and living together for a year ....
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